this, that, these and those
Why do we use this and these?
We use this (singular) and these (plural) as pronouns:
- to talk about people or things near us:
This is a nice cup of tea.
Whose shoes are these?
- to introduce people:
This is Janet.
These are my friends, John and Michael.
WARNING:
We don’t say These are John and Michael.
We say This is John and this is Michael.
- to introduce ourselves to begin a conversation on the phone:
Hello, this is David, Can I speak to Sally?
Why do we use that and those?
We use that (singular) and those (plural):
- to talk about things that are not near us:
What’s that?
This is our house, and that’s Rebecca’s house over there.
Those are very expensive shoes.
- We also use that to refer back to something someone said or did:
- - Shall we go to the cinema?
- Yes, that’s a good idea. - - I’ve got a new job.
- That’s great. - - I’m very tired.
- Why is that?
this, these, that, those with nouns
We also use this, these, that and those with nouns to show proximity
We use this and these for people or things near us:
We have lived in this house for twenty years.
Have you read all of these books?
… and that and those for things that are not near us:
Who lives in that house?
Who are those people?
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Hallo, I am a new member here.
I am a bit confused:
Here you say: - we use this to introduce ourselves to begin a conversation on the phone:
Hello, this is David, Can I speak to Sally",
but then I see:
" We use it to talk about ourselves on the telephone:
Hello. It’s George."
Is there any difference? Thank you!
team
Hello alex_moon!
That's a good question! Using This is a little more formal. You would use This when calling people you don't know well, but you could use It or This for friends or family, especially in British English.
Hope that helps!
Regards
Jeremy Bee
The LearnEnglish Team
Thanks a lot!
On the page "this, that, these and those" there is this warning: "We don’t say These are John and Michael."
I have a question: is it grammatically wrong or is it impolite? If it is wrong, I would like to find explanations and exercises regarding this kind of problem (where "X and Y" should not be treated as a single set).
Thank you. :-)
team
Hello dg7!
That's an interesting question! I would say the rule is that we would never say These are (a/an) X and (a/an) Y, so it is a grammatical rule, rather than a question of politeness.
Hope that helps!
Jeremy Bee
The LearnEnglish Team
Thank you for your replay,
but I still feel unsure. Is it possible to write: "John and Michael are my friends" ?
Is there a page where this kind of problem is explained?
Regards.
Daniele
team
Hello dg7!
Yes, it is possible to write John and Michael are my friends. This rule applies only to These are... I'm afraid we don't have a specific page on this problem - it's not a very common issue!
Regards
Jeremy Bee
The LearnEnglish Team
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