Have you ever been invited to a party that you didn't want to go to? Find out how to turn down unwanted invitations in the future.

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Language level

Intermediate: B1


Dear learningEnglish team,
I have grammatical question, what is the meaning of “ you’ve got to wear ...” or “ you’ve got to take him ... “. I have no idea about the “got” in the sentences.
Many thanks

Hello elnaz

In these phrases, 'have got to' is another way of saying 'have to', with the idea of obligation.

All the best


The LearnEnglish Team

Thank you

I have got a question. I’m a little bit confused with the grammatical aspect of this phrase “I’m just going to have to tell them the truth...”. What’s the difference between “I’m going to have to tell..” and “I have to tell..”
I would be very grateful if someone could help me. Many thanks in advance.

Hello Rinchik,

The phrase 'I'm just going to...' tells us that the speaker can avoid something at the moment but will have no choice at some point in the future or if they wish to achieve some other goal:

I'm going to have to tell them the truth (when they ask/when I get there)

I'm going to have to tell them the truth (if I want them to help me)


Best wishes,


The LearnEnglish Team

Yes, it's very useful information. I sometimes cannot reject their invitation so what should I say it politely. I don't want to make them dissapointed.

First of all accept my greetings, Secondly, i would like to thank you for this useful lesson.
My question is what does it mean (Josh and Henrietta would like to have the pleasure of your company at a drinks party, next Saturday evening)? I guess this invitation is birthday invitation, am I right?.
Best regards,

Hello Mohamed,

Yes, this is an invitation, but to a drinks party. The drinks party could be a birthday party as well, but that isn't clear from just this sentence. 

All the best,
The LearnEnglish Team

Very useful, indeed. It is sometimes difficult to say no, specially in cultures like mine.

Can I mark this lesson as a completed ?