Look at these examples to see how defining relative clauses are used.
Are you the one who sent me the email?
The phone which has the most features is also the most expensive.
This is the video that I wanted to show you.
The person they spoke to was really helpful.
Try this exercise to test your grammar.
Read the explanation to learn more.
Relative clauses give us information about the person or thing mentioned.
Defining relative clauses give us essential information – information that tells us who or what we are talking about.
The woman who lives next door works in a bank.
These are the flights that have been cancelled.
We usually use a relative pronoun or adverb to start a defining relative clause: who, which, that, when, where or whose.
We can use who or that to talk about people. that is more common and a bit more informal.
She's the woman who cuts my hair.
He's the man that I met at the conference.
We can use which or that to talk about things. that is more common and a bit more informal.
There was a one-year guarantee which came with the TV.
The laptop that I bought last week has started making a strange noise!
when can refer to a time.
Summer is the season when I'm happiest.
where can refer to a place.
That's the stadium where Real Madrid play.
whose refers to the person that something belongs to.
He's a musician whose albums have sold millions.
Omitting the relative pronoun
Sometimes we can leave out the relative pronoun. For example, we can usually leave out who, which or that if it is followed by a subject.
The assistant [that] we met was really kind.
(we = subject, can omit that)
We can't usually leave it out if it is followed by a verb.
The assistant that helped us was really kind.
(helped = verb, can't omit that)
Do this exercise to test your grammar again.
'get banned' and 'win' are correct present simple forms here. In British English, very often when we refer to a group (such as 'Manchester City' or 'Bayern', which are of course football teams consisting of many people), we use a plural verb even though the noun is grammatically singular. This is why 'get' and 'win' are correct here. I don't understand how a title says 'Robben thresh Barça', as clearly Robben is an individual; I would write 'threshes'.
As for your first question, I'm afraid it's difficult to explain why one form or the other is used without having some kind of context, but in general the first form suggests that the action is in progress, whereas the second does not -- it could be an action someone is considering but hasn't done yet. I'd suggest you have a look at our continuous aspect page to read a bit more about this. If you have any questions about it, please ask us there.
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The LearnEnglish Team