International Day of Friendship

International Day of Friendship

July 30 is the United Nations International Day of Friendship. Read about the importance of friendship and find out why the UN decided to give it a special day.

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The importance of friends

Friends come in all shapes and sizes. They may be someone we met as a child, a classmate at school, someone we met at work or through other friends. They may be friends who live at a distance in another country or virtual friends we've made online. Whoever they are, however we met them, there is a special connection based on a shared history and interests, enjoying doing things together or simply talking and understanding each other. Friends are there to help us at difficult times and to celebrate the good times. Doctors say that friends are very important for both our physical and mental health at all stages in life. 

Declaring an international Friendship Day

But friends are not only important on an individual level. Friendship can also be important on a global level. Friendships that cross borders can help bring peace and avoid war. Learning to think of other people, people who are different from us, as our friends helps us work together to build a culture of peace. That's why the UN declared 30 July as its official International Day of Friendship.

The origins of the day

An international celebration was first suggested by the World Friendship Crusade. This organisation was founded by Dr Ramón Artemio Bracho and his friends in Puerto Pinasco, Paraguay, in 1958. They wanted to support the power of friendship and its importance in creating a culture of peace. So, in the same year, they decided to celebrate Friendship Week in Puerto Pinasco and other places in Paraguay. The following year, they repeated the week and finished on 30 July, which they declared as Friendship Day. From there, celebrations of friendship grew and spread across the Americas, then the world, and eventually the UN declared an International Day of Friendship in 2011.

Friendship Days around the world

The International Day of Friendship on 30 July is not the only day celebrating friendship around the world. A number of countries, such as Paraguay, also celebrate on 30 July, but other countries have different dates. For example, Argentina, Brazil and Spain celebrate Friend's Day on 20 July, while in India and the US, they celebrate it on the first Sunday in August. In Finland and Estonia, Friendship Day is celebrated on the same day as Valentine's Day, 14 February.

What do people do on the International Day of Friendship?

Wherever it's celebrated, the celebrations are very similar. Friends meet up to spend time together. They may eat out or have a meal at home. They give each other small gifts: books, flowers, simple jewellery such as a friendship band (a simple bracelet). Some people send each other cards and greetings online. Whatever form the celebration takes, the spirit is the same – to remember the importance of friends and the power of friendship.

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Submitted by _AngryCupcake_ on Mon, 18/04/2022 - 21:09

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Before reading this blog I wasn't informed that actually there exists a day dedicated to friendship. This fact made me so happy because my friends play crucial role in may life, but I always felt that their importance was underestimated in the eyes of the society.
I think that friendship is a reciprocal relationship where every person must invest time, care and effort in order to receive the same thing. (But be careful, it's not called friendship if you give a lot but don't get anything back). Nowadays it is often confused with a business deal, where you call someone "friend" only while they can fulfill your interests and then, after a short period of time, you disappear or maybe act like they never existed.
What can we do to change this? Well maybe make the International Day of Friendship more popular and promote real life stories of successful friendships, those who have resisted time and obstacles of life, those which may serve as a role model and strengthen the hope that real friendships still exist.

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Submitted by Rafaela1 on Fri, 30/07/2021 - 15:52

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"Whoever they are, however we met them, there is a special connection based on a shared history and interests, enjoying doing things together or simply talking and understanding each other. Friends are there to help us at difficult times and to celebrate the good times." Unfortunately, a friend of mine can never find a "best friend" because he plays both sides of the field or he might just try to be everyone's pet. A good friendship cannot exist without thinking by getting closer to others' feelings in others' shoes before taking actions. Don't be spoiled!!!

Submitted by PARIMALA MADIAZHAKAN on Tue, 27/07/2021 - 05:03

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Yes, I agreed that that friends are important to us. It's because sometimes friends can be a stress buster and problem solvers in our life. We can share our personal problems without any obstacles. Friends always support us in any way and be a good motivator to succeed. They share our happiness and sadness. We can be friends and make friends with our own family members, neighbors, and cousins. Happy is the definition of a friendship.

Submitted by Thinthinmyoe on Mon, 05/07/2021 - 06:07

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Yeh,I absolutely agree that! Friends are very very important in our life. Without any friends,I don't think we can be successful and solve many problems along our life.We can say friends are the greatest gift of God.
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Submitted by Rafaela1 on Wed, 30/12/2020 - 13:17

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I have a friend in my mind. I talk to him everyday. He laughs at me everyday. That's the way we talk with. ;)
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Submitted by danisep on Wed, 30/12/2020 - 05:03

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yes, I think that friends are important for mental health, we are socials beings we need to talk share our opinions and feelings so it’s something essential, but not everybody have the same ability to get friends for example I'm one of those, for that reason my friends are few I admire that ability to get along with strangers and those people who can make friends at everywhere.

Submitted by cittàutopica on Fri, 18/12/2020 - 15:28

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Do I agree that friends are important? Of course! Friendship is a lifeline and backup anchor. Friends are more important than relatives very often. There are definitely different degrees of friendship, which can be more or less close, but it's always a bond and a resource.I have three friends since 1979 and, although we meet up rarely, we feel attached however.

Submitted by Gerlado Duque on Fri, 21/08/2020 - 21:47

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If I agree that friends are important

Submitted by Julia19 on Tue, 04/08/2020 - 10:49

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Unfortunately sometimes we forget about our friends and meet them only few times a month. But when I meet my friend I felt l such a great satisfication from our simple conversation that I regret about delaying that time. Friends exchange their energies, opinions and give each other an inspiration for many things. Friends are very important part of our well-being.
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Submitted by Rafaela1 on Thu, 30/07/2020 - 15:45

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Yes, as i get older, come to realize that a best friend is so important in my life. Perhaps, indispensable to live longer... ! ;)