1. What is small talk?
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Joe: Small talk in my opinion is when you first meet a person and you're not sure what to talk about, so you basically ask questions to get to know them more, and just essentially the normal questions like where you're from, have you got any siblings, stuff like that, just to get someone ,like, … This could happen at work or a bar and, yeah. Politics, that's a main topic that I think you shouldn't bring up straight away to a person, might shock them. I think, also, what their beliefs are as well, and generally just topics that are sensible and maybe best not to talk about straight away.
Elena: Small talk is a kind of conversation that you have with strangers while you're waiting for a bus or also you're in line at the doctor's office. A very popular topic here in Italy is the weather, but also complaints about public transport delays. I think that an inappropriate topic is criticism about physical appearance or also political issues.
Stephen: I think small talk is the type of conversation you make with somebody when you want to appear friendly, but you don't have anything specific, you know, you need to share with them. So you just talk about day-to-day things. Where I live in Vietnam, it's quite common to actually start small talk by asking about food or health. For example, you could say, Anzun is a form of 'hi', which you're asking somebody if they've eaten yet. And that's how they say hello. In my culture in the US, I would say something that definitely should be avoided when it comes to small talk would be politics, because people get pretty passionate about it, and you never know what side of the fence someone's on.
Tina: I guess small talk depends on who you're actually talking to. So if you know the people and you're just sort of catching up, very often we talk about oh God it's got to be the weather, always the weather! When I lived in Italy, whenever you saw someone you hadn't seen for a while, you talked about the weather. You talked about the orto, which is like your vegetable plot, and how it was getting on, because I lived out in the countryside. And then politics, which for me is a big no-no. So, for small talk, good topics: definitely weather, maybe what you did for the weekend or something. Politics, stay away from. Wages, stay away from. Anything to do with money, I reckon!
Joanne: For me, small talk are those little conversations that we have with people where what we say isn't really the important thing. It's more about making a connection, maybe making people feel comfortable or leading into a more serious discussion topic. I'm from the UK and I think people small talk quite a lot there. Usually it's about the weather, but there could be other topics, too. For example celebrity gossip or maybe sports events. Some subjects which I think are probably inappropriate for small talk are serious things such as politics or maybe topics which are rather personal, talking about people's relationships or something like that.
Small talk is light, informal conversation that we make in all sorts of social situations. It's not about discussing deep or complex topics – it's more about being friendly or making connections with other people. Common small talk topics include the weather, hobbies, daily activities or shared experiences like travel or food. Small talk is usually casual and positive, so certain topics should probably be avoided!
In this video, you can hear some people from different places giving their definition of small talk, and find out which topics are popular and which are not appropriate for small talk in their cultures.
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- In your opinion, what is small talk?
- What are popular small talk topics where you live?
- Which topics are not appropriate for small talk in your culture?
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Thanks for sharing your voice message! I was interested to hear your ideas and to learn that, in your experience, people often talk about what they’re up to at the moment, for example when they’re on a journey. I think it can be really interesting talking to strangers on a journey and getting to know a little about them!
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Hi there! For me, small talk is a light conversation that you may have with someone you barely know or someone you haven't seen for a while. This kind of conversation is not employed as an exchange of relevant information but to create a connection between the people involved. I usually start these conversations making an flattery about the other's outfit, talking about something of the activity that is happening on that moment or any topic we have in common. I absolutely recommend avoiding hot topics such as politics or controversial discussions.
Hi NuriaOrtega,
I agree, it's all about finding something we have in common with the other person to get a conversation started. And I also avoid hot topics - it's just too risky with people we don't know well!
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https://www.speakpipe.com/voice-recorder/msg/ykxmlmijbuz15px0 this is my definition of small talk
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Hi everyone,
Small talk is useful because it helps people break the ice,feel confortable, and build relationships,it doesn't have to be deep a simple conversation about the weather hobbies work and weekend plans can create a friendly connection.
In our culture, somme topics are better avoided during small talk especially wen you don't know the person well for exemple personal relationships, politics, monay and salary, health problemes.
In my opinion, small talk is a short and friendly conversation that people have to make social situations more comfortable and build relationships. Where I live, in Vietnam, popular small talk topics include school, work, hobbies, food, the weather, and sometimes weekend plans. However, some topics are usually not appropriate, especially when talking to people we don’t know well. For example, we normally avoid asking about someone’s salary, age, family problems, or other private matters. I think good small talk should be simple, positive, and respectful.
I love your last sentence nhatquang123, that small talk should be simple, positive and respectful! This is so true!
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I live in France and people usually make small talk about the weather, or if they’re waiting for the bus they’ll usually complain together about bus delays and how they’re too small to fit everyone they take.
I will tend to consider politics or money as not appropriate topics. Like if you ask me how much I made last month, I will not think it’s very appropriate, especially if we’re strangers.
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Hi kenza_07,
Thanks for sharing your voice message! I agree - small talk is a way to be friendly and engage with another person, and then perhaps keep talking about other things.
I live in France too, and I know what you mean about people chatting to each other about transport problems! I think it can also be a way of letting off steam when you're in an annoying situation - you just need someone to complain to!!
Best wishes,
Jo (LearnEnglish team)
Hello friends,
I'm Rosa, from Vietnam.
In my opinion, small talk is a form of communication. It's a short conversation but it's important. Small talk helps people connect with each other.
Here in Vietnam, small talk usually about health, travel experiences, food, weather and daily activities. I think small talk doesn't only happen between you and strangers but it's also happens when we meet our friends, customers, acquaintances, vendor....and so on. The topic such as politics and talking badly about other people should be avoided in small talk.
Small talk helps us build and maintain our relationship, it makes our lives more interesting.
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Hi Rosa ✿
Thanks for leaving your thoughts about small talk and I think you're right that you also use it with you meet up with your friends, acquaintances and people in shops etc. I love passing the time of day with people you've just met especially having a good old moan about the weather ... which is a huge topic in the UK!
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In my opinion, small talk is essential for people to get to know each other because it is difficult for strangers to start conversation with personal topic. I am living in Tokyo, Japan and I think we almost talk about weather for small talk. They say that Japanese people always like talking about weather. Also we have a small talk about disaster which happened recently. Politics, Baseball and Religion are usually avoided for small talk because each person have different opinion.
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For me, small talk is a simple conversation between you and someone you cannot say you do not know, but you only know them on a surface level. Maybe you are used to seeing them at school, at work, in the park, or in any other place where you both often spend time.
From there, you can start by saying, “Hello, how are you?” and introduce yourself. Of course, if the other person wants to talk to you, they will introduce themselves too. Then, you can start talking about something you have in common, such as school, work, or anything else. You can share your opinion, ask for their opinion, and continue the conversation from there.
Hello,
Sometimes I have to give instructions to colleagues who are working for the first time. I also give information and directions to people at the bus stop.
Hello,
Small talk is when you are with another person for a while and there is a period of silence, so one of you starts talking about something casual. Where I live, we often use topics like the weather or the time. For example, sometimes we are waiting in a doctor’s office and someone asks, “What time is it?” That can lead to a short conversation. We usually avoid talking about someone’s body or physical appearance, especially with people we don’t know well.
Hello Everyone,
I'm from India.
In my opinion, small talk is a type of casual conversation that we use to interact with someone, especially when we meet them for the first time.
For example, if you meet someone outside a doctor's cabin, you might start a conversation by asking, “How long have you been waiting?” However, when you meet someone in a different situation, your questions and conversation may change according to the place and situation.
For example, if you are at a cricket stadium and someone is continuously cheering for Virat Kohli's cover drive, you might say, “What a player he is! I love watching him play.” The other person might reply, “I'm a big fan of his batting too.”
So, I think small talk is basically a casual conversation that starts naturally according to the situation and helps us interact with someone we don't know well.
Hi everyone ' I want to share with my opinion about small talking , small talk is a conversetion with anther person you meet him for first time like at a bus satition or at school and you starting to know your selves .
Hi everyone! I’d like to share my opinion about small talk. In fact, small talk is often more enjoyable and effective for communication than formal discussions. During formal meetings, people may hesitate to speak at length. However, in small talk sessions, we can learn how others feel, hear their opinions, and sometimes even discover better solutions than in structured meetings.
Small talk may include casual topics such as gossip, fashion trends, news, or the latest updates on social media platforms like Facebook and TikTok. Yet, beyond these light conversations, small talk can carry deeper meaning. When approached with empathy and ethics, it can truly support our wellbeing by fostering connection and understanding.
Hi everyone! I’m Alondra and I'm from Mexico. Here, small talk is when you meet someone and you don’t know what to talk about, so you talk about the weather, sports, or something like that. Sometimes you have small talk with someone you don’t see very often, and you talk about school, their job, or something like that. A topic we don’t usually talk about is religion.
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Hello, I'm Vanessa come from Haiti, and to me, small talk is all the conversation you can have with someone that you meet at a bus, a bank line, a market, or at an activities with who you can speak about the weather, a price, a changement, or just to say hello.
Small talk is when you want to break the ice, that is to say when you want to talk to people you haven’t met before like in a train for , or when you are on holiday. Of course you should not choose a too serous topic to talk about, but something like the weather , going on holiday or whatever, not politics or religion. Actually you don’t really expect an answer from the people you are talking to , but you don’t want to seem indifferent but sociable to them.
Small talk is when you are waiting for a bus for exemplo and someone are at the bus stop and say something about the weather, or say something about the delay or ask if you live near by... in my job for exemplo, if I have a meeting their always someone normally the director who ask about how as my plans for the weekend, how the week is going so far, if I say something about go to a trip, they say something like "you will love this place, or be prepare its super hot there...", and as everyone say talk about politicians in small topic is not a good optician.
In my opinion, “small talk” is an informal conversation with people in the elevator or somewhere else where I have to stop to do something. I’m from Brazil, and there it’s common to talk about traffic—because the city is big—or about the weather—because it’s raining.
Hi Anne!
In the UK we always pass the time of day talking about the weather ... and no one is ever happy with it!!! Normally it's about the rain but for the passed few weeks it's about the 'heatwave'! You mentioned that often traffic is common to chat about ... do you live in a big city?
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Hey everyone, I recorded a quick audio to share with you what I think about small talk...
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Hi Jefferson!
Thanks for leaving an audio, I enjoyed listening to it and totally agree with you that these days you need to be quite careful when talking about politics with people as it can get quite heated if you disagree about certain things.
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Hello,
I am Ceren and living in Türkiye. In my humble opinion, small talks are superficial places where we connect to people with the help of hobbies, situations, or on any daily topics. In my country, we talk about weather, hobbies, daily topics such as important cultural days and of course CATS :) We love cats and their impacts on our daily life. Talking about politics, other's religion and gossiping are not appropriate by our people and me also. I think that people can talk more about health and nature.
Hi everyone,
Small talk is short conversation about simple topics. generally we use it to be friendly with people we are meeting for the first time. it s about weather, hobbies, foods or personal experiences. however small talk usually does not include politics or religious belief.
ın my culture if we know the person asking question such as 'how is it going? ' or ' how are your mother, father, children?' can also be small talking
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Firstly my English is not so professional so, if I make mistake umm you know it doesn't the End ^L*
What is small talk??
In my opinion small it's when you be don't busy and you can open a small conversation with someone and you can speak about.
anything doesn't be formal usual like as( strat conversation with someone strang, speak about weather,......)like that.
If I make any mistakes please correct me:)
Thanks for reading.
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To my accords, small talk is a short talk between people when they are not sure what to talk about or what would be the subject matter of talking. This especially happens when you meet someone to whom you are not introduced or familiar with to start up talking about introductory or other related matters.
In my living area, the most common topic people use in small talks would be talking about the living place, family details and conditions of one's living area when they meet each other the first time. It is more common among locals who likes to spend their useful times talking with unknown people without a proper outline. Besides during an impulsive or unrestful situations, people against the unrest or those who are peaceful would inadvertently start criticizing about the people causing the unrest, even though they might not know each other well. This includes situations in bus depots or crowded environments where unrest or anti-peaceful actions may kick-start a short discussion among people who are wandering over the unrestful events.
As I am a Bangladeshi citizen, I can strongly and frankly say that the most inappropriate topic for small talk would be talking about politics and religion, as these are both serious topics. This can more likely bring in conflict between people when they try to delve in complex and serious topics through a less serious topic without knowing each other completely.
Hey everyone. For me small talk is a short conversation with someone where we are trying to break the ice, talking about chill topics such as weather, hobbies, sports, or something without much importance. Here in Colombia a common small talk is about soccer or maybe food.
Alexandre from DRCongo, Small talk for me is about sharing spontanasly on some subjects without any specfic purpose . sometimes, the persons who are talking do not know each other. In DRCongo, we mostly find small talk when using common transport and the subjects are various ( from politics to economy or society). Some subjecs can come from the drivers but sometimes small talk can lead to friendship.
Hi! am Emma from Uganda. A small talk is when you meet someone new and you start a conversation looking out for common interests. Some of the common topics are hobbies, current affairs, food. One of the inappropriate topics is politics.
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In my opinion, the small talk is a really outdated thing. If I want to make friend with someone, I will just start to ask about this man. As opposite, if there are not any theme or reasons for conversation, it will be better to keep silent.
In Russia, the small talk is really small. Usually, it looks like someone ask you "How are you doing?" and you have to answer "OK". In the most case it can be strange, if you answer something other.
Hi everyone!
Small talk in my mind is when people meet each other for the first time and they should talk about some good topics. They often discuss general themes such as the weather, favorite food and positive things about the country they are in. In my opinion that an inappropriate themes are political or religion issues.
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Hi Yahya29,
Thank you for sharing your comment. I love your humourous writing style :-)
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